Letting Go

A couple of months ago, a thoughtful friend (thank you, Kimberly!:) shared a written message by T.D. Jakes. Since that day, I have spent some time pondering the topic of letting go. It is so easy to hang on to people, words, attitudes, bad memories, habits, hurts, and the past. My friend, Patti, very accurately calls this hanging on behavior mental hoarding. I want to share some excerpts from T.D. Jakes' message:


"If you are holding on to past hurts and pains....LET IT GO!
If someone has angered you....LET IT GO!
If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge....LET IT GO!
If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction....LET IT GO!
If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs...LET IT GO!
If you have a bad attitude....LET IT GO!
If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better....LET IT GO!
If you're stuck in the past, and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him....LET IT GO!
If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth....
LET IT GO!"


When I allow myself to stay bogged down in the mud and mire of the past, I am cheating myself out of what God has planned for me during the current chapter of my life. When I let go of the past, I am free to move forward in the direction that God has already mapped out for me.  
He will reveal His plan to me in His perfect timing. I must confess that I sometimes have a different idea about the definition of "perfect timing". But, I know that God's timing is always the best. 


In Philippians 3:13-14, Paul talks about forgetting what is behind, straining toward what is ahead, and pressing on. If we have a personal relationship with Christ, then we are free to let go of the things that have kept us in bondage.


I cannot control if a negative thought or memory comes to mind. But, I can choose not to dwell on a thought or memory that promises to drag me down into the pits of despair. That doesn't mean that I live in a world of denial. It just means that I am choosing to let go.


Jeremiah 29:11 - "For I know the plans I have for you", declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."


Lord, give me the courage to let go and to press on toward what You have for me in the days to come.